Come on, it's no secret; just about every woman loves it when her man finishes doing his thingy only to flip her around and hug her in the spoon position. That's the goldmine of affectionate actions.
Flipping her around isn't even necessary, but chances are that some kind of bodily touching may be. Why? Well, because sharing in a very sacred experience with a woman likely leaves her feeling vulnerable. And something as small as wrapping your arm around her can make all the difference.
But you're tired: If you're about to crash out for a couple of hours because you simply can't keep your eyes open, wrap your arms around her, say something like, "you wore me out, babe" and nap away.
Although many guys aren't big fans of the "cuddle," there are even less men around who want to talk once the deed is over. But if she wants to talk, you may have to keep your ears open and listen up.
Chances are that she will likely talk about what went down -- especially if you had her yelling out like a banshee. And I'm quite sure that your "strokable" ego will overtake your need for some shuteye when it comes to such a topic anyway.
But you're tired: If you want to take a nap at this point, you won't be able to doze off completely as she might be insulted if you start snoring when she's in the middle of describing her second orgasm. Instead, ask open-ended questions so she'll take longer to answer, giving you time to relax. As well, do your best to keep her talking about what you did that was so great, that way, you'll want to stay awake.
But if you're older and more comfortable in your relationship, chances are that you may not be as easily aroused for round two (huaaaahaaaaahaaaa), and, of course, that isn't your fault. Add that to the fact that you probably did all the work and it's quite possible that your little man won't be good to go right away.
It's a well-known fact that after a man ejaculates, he feels like sleeping, because upon orgasm, humans release the hormone oxytocin, which normally makes us sleepy. Then again, perhaps if you didn't hold your breath when you reached orgasm, you'd be able to stay awake (that's one theory anyway).
The bottom line is that, whether you're with your wife or a girlfriend, a gentleman always makes an effort to ensure that the woman lying next to him feels secure after sex. I know you want to sleep, but just do your best to let her know that it's nothing personal.
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
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Posted by Bambini caldi at 12/13/2006 01:30:00 PM
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