Hey peeps....It's friday.....yang penting nya..ramai yang holidaying masa ani...CRAP!!! Imagine yang keraja nda dapat cuti...sob...sob....
Is there such things as loveless relationship?? Can you imagine being with sumone you dun love?? hemm..even if you've known this person for so long. Somehow there's just this thingy..just because that you're best friends (am talking about with the opposite sex ya...) but it doesnt always work when you two become lovers..worst till married to eachother.. Why do we see some relationship ends up with a happy marriage and some don't? What is it that we are lacking off?? communication?? Sex??? Affection?? others???? bla...bla...bla.. I have a fren~ we just name her Y* lah...she was out with this guy from highschool..then college..i think they went out for 9 years before they decides to get married.. Before the marriage, you can see them always together..so loving to the max....Totally glued to each other...I was so jelous seeing the two love birds..biasa lah me at that time not to say i was anti-social...but during my school days I dun care about having boyfriend..I juz wanna have fun...happy2 saja...( back to the story ya...before i grumble on sumthing else)..when the lovebirds got married we were dame happy for both of them..we tot it'll be everlasting...pi mana everlasting.....they were divorce less than a year after the marriage...mannnn......9 freaking years..if they were married for all those year 2 or 3 kids sudah tu..ada yang super duper express & yang super duper active..8 kids & 1 in the making tu...heheh...i was dumbstruck with the answer from c Y*..they both fall out of love..WHaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? Well they knew it earlier on sudah..but because they dun wanna hurt each other's feeling...by confronting and telling the truth so they decide to pursue the marriage...ish....cana kan tu...they could ave said it earlier kan..without being bitter to each other...ani even being in the same room pun nda dpt..mesti tah pasang muka Evvvillllllllll (mcm ceta austin power Dr. Evvvil..) mata pun mcm kan membunuh..muka brutal to the maxxxx.........worst still even to talk decently to each other pun susah..mesti tah cara becakap macam org becakap dengan org tuli...voice volume blasting tu eh....apa kannnnnn........so what do we learn from all this??? The least we could do is make sum changes if we want to be happy with our partner...we can always give & take..but jgn giving saja...orelse mun sudah nda tahan2...decent communication please...jgntah tah volume atu full blast kali ah...if its meant to be ,its meant to be..if nda pun..shit happens..
Is there such things as loveless relationship?? Can you imagine being with sumone you dun love?? hemm..even if you've known this person for so long. Somehow there's just this thingy..just because that you're best friends (am talking about with the opposite sex ya...) but it doesnt always work when you two become lovers..worst till married to eachother.. Why do we see some relationship ends up with a happy marriage and some don't? What is it that we are lacking off?? communication?? Sex??? Affection?? others???? bla...bla...bla.. I have a fren~ we just name her Y* lah...she was out with this guy from highschool..then college..i think they went out for 9 years before they decides to get married.. Before the marriage, you can see them always together..so loving to the max....Totally glued to each other...I was so jelous seeing the two love birds..biasa lah me at that time not to say i was anti-social...but during my school days I dun care about having boyfriend..I juz wanna have fun...happy2 saja...( back to the story ya...before i grumble on sumthing else)..when the lovebirds got married we were dame happy for both of them..we tot it'll be everlasting...pi mana everlasting.....they were divorce less than a year after the marriage...mannnn......9 freaking years..if they were married for all those year 2 or 3 kids sudah tu..ada yang super duper express & yang super duper active..8 kids & 1 in the making tu...heheh...i was dumbstruck with the answer from c Y*..they both fall out of love..WHaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? Well they knew it earlier on sudah..but because they dun wanna hurt each other's feeling...by confronting and telling the truth so they decide to pursue the marriage...ish....cana kan tu...they could ave said it earlier kan..without being bitter to each other...ani even being in the same room pun nda dpt..mesti tah pasang muka Evvvillllllllll (mcm ceta austin power Dr. Evvvil..) mata pun mcm kan membunuh..muka brutal to the maxxxx.........worst still even to talk decently to each other pun susah..mesti tah cara becakap macam org becakap dengan org tuli...voice volume blasting tu eh....apa kannnnnn........so what do we learn from all this??? The least we could do is make sum changes if we want to be happy with our partner...we can always give & take..but jgn giving saja...orelse mun sudah nda tahan2...decent communication please...jgntah tah volume atu full blast kali ah...if its meant to be ,its meant to be..if nda pun..shit happens..
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Lol...i like the "full blast" thing. Your blog ani ada2 saja ah...its so funny..
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