Hot Lover... OLDER OR YOUNGER?????

IN recent months, there has been much hullabaloo about the virtues of women dating and marrying younger men. Terry McMillan's popular book and the subsequent movie, How Stella Got Her Groove Back, have inspired women around the globe to seek out and openly praise the positives of younger men.
Yet, a persistent chorus can be heard from in-the-know females who assert what we all have assumed or known for decades, even centuries: The older man has many desirable qualities that should not be overlooked by today's woman.
Some always preferred older men...why???...Older men make you feel special; they give you everything you need. They give you so much attention (??), and they make you feel wanted and needed. Older men give you respect. They make you feel like a queen..(??)

Many women agree. And while the older woman-younger man relationship is a controversial, relatively modern phenomenon, the younger woman-older man union is and long has been more of the norm as far as romantic matches go. To some, it is what is expected. To many, it is not at all unusual.

Through the centuries it has not been uncommon for women to marry men old enough to be their fathers.Men prided themselves in getting the youngest, purest-looking women they could find; it was a symbol of prestige and power and manhood. In addition, society traditionally dictates that men should be the providers, the leaders, the heads of the household.
These days, as they have done throughout the centuries, women are realizing or rediscovering that when it comes to men, older can be better, and it often is just that. Many women dismiss the advances made by younger men because they feel that youthful pursuers don't have as much to offer as their older counterparts.

Some frenz disagree of having someone younger because they want somebody who is already mature, who knows who he is and what he wants. A lot of younger men expect the older woman to take care of them, and they are not going to do that.

Women give numerous reasons why they prefer older men. One reason cemented in time and tradition is that women usually prefer men who are financially stable, and in most cases the most financially secure men are those who are older men who are established. In past times when a teenage girl married an older man, it was somewhat influenced by the fact he already had establish himself in a business or profession--or he had built up his farming business--and he was in a much better position to take care of his wife than men her own age.

One frenz dating a man 15 years her senior and they have a "wonderful" relationship. she said they have a lot to talk about and don't even consider him `ok!. ' they have loads of fun and the sex is great..