ROMANTIC RULES......

1. Stop Talking about Romance and Get to Work
2. Don't expect your partner to make changes. If you want more romance in your relationship, you have to give it.
3. Make your partner a part of your life. Top priority is ideal.
4. Don't expect romance to just happen, you have to create it.
5. Don't view romance as a chore, consider it a privilege. It's a blessing to have someone in your life to be romantic with.
6. A relationship requires daily attention to keep it alive. If you put in the minimum work, it will be reflected in the degree of happiness and satisfaction you feel in your relationship.
7. Keeping the lines of communication open will keep romance burning bright.
The nice thing about working on a relationship is that it doesn't take both people to start the process. If only one starts the process, the entire dynamics of your relationship will change. In turn, your partner will acquiesce.
This will eliminate "talking" with your partner about fixing things. The best thing is that you'll never have to mention a word because things will naturally change.

Lastly, the best insurance against a failed relationship is to retain the qualities that make it strong. When these qualities are missing, a void is felt by one or both of the partners. When there are voids, people naturally look to have them filled. Commonly, the solution is found through affairs.
Below is a list of qualities that will make your relationship an affair.

Read through the list below and mark the ones that describe how you feel in your relationship with your partner:
1. Feeling desired
2. Feel needed
3. Sexual fulfillment
4. Being understood
5. Close friendship
6. Feel loved
7. Intellectual stimulation
8. Feeling complete
9. Attachment to partner
10. Being listened to

The more qualities you have, the stronger your relationship will be. All of the qualities above are crucial in a relationship. The goal of the list above is to see which qualities are missing.